Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel like you were not in control?
Not of the relationship, but your own feelings, thoughts, and actions?
You’re out there, and you know what you think of your ex. Even if they’ve been right all along.
You’re sure their behavior isn’t normal. But deep down, do you still want to love them?
Do you want to give them another chance?
If you’re like me, you probably would answer yes to all of those questions. And if they’re the only ones asked, I’m there to support you.
But if those questions are asked repeatedly, it might not be so easy to give a direct answer.
That’s why the non-linear answer to the question of whether to leave a relationship is: yes or no. It’s a tension that most of us haven’t faced before because we don’t really know how to think in the middle.